March 21, 2025

What is probate?

A guide to administering a will in New York, New Jersey, and Pennsylvania

Let’s talk about something a bit less thrilling but absolutely essential: probate. You’ve probably heard of a will before—a legal document that outlines how your stuff should be divided after you’re gone. But here’s the thing: have you ever wondered what happens after that? What’s the process to make sure your wishes are actually carried out the way you intended? Spoiler alert: It’s more than just writing up the will, and it’s probably not as simple as you might think.

If you’ve ever tried to Google the steps, you’ve likely been buried in legal jargon that only leaves you more stressed and confused. Trust me, I get it. But here’s the good news: I’m here to break it all down for you in a way that’s easy to understand, and by the end, you’ll feel confident about taking the next steps in planning your legacy.

So, let’s start with the basics. What exactly is probate?

In a nutshell, probate is the legal process that ensures your will (or, if there’s no will, your estate) is managed and distributed properly. Think of it as the official way to make sure your assets—your property, money, and belongings—end up where you want them to go. If you’ve got a will, the person you’ve chosen (called the “executor”) steps in to handle everything. They track down your assets, pay any debts, and then distribute the rest to your heirs. 

Now, if you don’t have a will, it gets a bit more complicated. The court steps in and appoints an administrator to manage things. They follow state laws to figure out who gets what, typically based on family ties or legal heirs.

And here’s something that can trip people up: probate laws vary by state. So, let’s take a closer look at how things work in states like New Jersey, New York, and Pennsylvania. Sound good? Let’s dive in!

What is Probate Law in New Jersey?

In New Jersey, if you’ve left a will, the executor named in it is appointed by the Surrogate Court to take charge and handle your affairs. If there’s no will, state law steps in to determine who will take over the estate, and typically, it’s the closest family members, like your spouse or children.

There are two types of probate in New Jersey:

Supervised Probate

Supervised probate is one you definitely want to avoid, if possible. This happens when there’s a dispute among the beneficiaries about how the assets should be distributed. The court will get involved and keep a close eye on everything, making sure your wishes are followed and that no one takes advantage of the situation.

Unsupervised Probate

Unsupervised probate is the much more common route. Here, the executor has the freedom to manage the estate without the court’s constant supervision. However, if any issues pop up later on, the court may get involved.

What is Probate Law in New York?

In New York, probate is governed by the Surrogate’s Court Procedure Act (SCPA) and the Estates Powers and Trust Law (EPTL). One thing to note: probate is a public process, so anyone can see the details.

If there’s a will, the person named as executor gets letters testamentary, which gives them the legal authority to carry out your wishes. But, if there’s no will—known as dying “intestate”—someone close to you, like a family member or friend, must petition the court for permission to serve as the executor.

What is Probate Law in Pennsylvania?

In Pennsylvania, if there’s a will, the executor files it with the Register of Wills in the county where the deceased person lived. If there’s no will, usually the surviving spouse or an adult child steps forward to act as the estate’s administrator. The person in charge of the estate must then file a petition for probate with the local probate court (called the orphans’ court) to officially open the probate case.

The personal representative must notify heirs, beneficiaries, creditors, and even the public that probate has begun.

Small Estate Option

Here’s a cool option in Pennsylvania: if the estate is small (meaning the assets are $50,000 or less), there’s an alternative probate process. This excludes real estate, some amounts families can collect without probate, and funeral expenses. If the court agrees, the estate can be handled using a simpler method, and the executor can distribute assets without going through the full probate process.

Let’s Break Down the Probate Process, Step by Step!

Probate might sound like a tedious, intimidating process, but with a little guidance, it’s much easier to navigate. Here’s how it works, broken down into simple steps:

Step 1: Filing the Petition

If there’s a will, the first step is to file a petition with the probate court to formally appoint the executor to act on behalf of the estate. The court needs to know who’s in charge! All heirs and beneficiaries must also be notified that the petition has been filed. This is their chance to object if there’s an issue with the will.

If there’s no will (also known as dying “intestate”), a petition for administration of the estate is filed. A notice of administration must be sent to all legal heirs, and the person filing the petition will ask the court to appoint them as the personal representative, a role very similar to an executor.

Step 2: Identifying Assets and Debts

Once the executor or administrator has been appointed, their next task is to identify and list all of the estate’s assets—real estate, cars, bank accounts, investments, pets, and even personal items like jewelry or intellectual property. Essentially, they take control of everything the deceased person owned.

At the same time, the executor must notify any creditors. They’ll have a period to file claims, and the executor needs to report all debts to the court. It’s about making sure everything is accounted for before moving on to the next step.

Step 3: Payment of Debts

Here’s where it gets a bit more serious—unfortunately, debt doesn’t disappear when someone passes away. The executor must use the estate’s assets to pay off any remaining debts—loans, credit cards, taxes, and even funeral expenses.

If the estate doesn’t have enough liquid cash, the executor might need to sell some of the assets (like property or vehicles) to raise the money to cover everything.

Step 4: Distribution of Assets

Once all debts are paid, it’s time to distribute the remaining assets. If there’s a will, the executor follows the deceased’s wishes, transferring assets to the heirs. If there’s no will, the state’s laws determine who gets what.

If the will specifies setting up a trust, the executor handles that too. Finally, the executor submits a final report to the court that details everything: debts paid, assets distributed, and what was left over.

How long does this take?
It can range from a few months to over a year, depending on how complicated the estate is and how busy the court is. This is definitely a step-by-step process that requires patience and attention to detail to get everything done right.

Why is Probate a Big Deal?

Probate can be a real pain for everyone involved. It’s often slow, expensive, and public. Here’s why:

  • Time-consuming: Probate can take months or even years, depending on the complexity of the estate.
  • Public process: Since probate is a public record, anyone can access it. This means private family matters and financial details could be exposed for the world to see.
  • Costs: Court fees, lawyer fees, and other costs can eat up a significant chunk of the estate, leaving less for the heirs.

How Can You Avoid Probate?

Here’s the good news: you don’t have to go through probate if you plan ahead. By setting up a Revocable Living Trust and a Life and Legacy Plan, you can ensure your assets are distributed quickly and privately—no court needed. With these tools, you can decide exactly who gets what, without relying on the courts or state laws.

Now What?

Probate is part of life, but it doesn’t have to be a nightmare. While it can be slow, costly, and public, careful planning can save your family from a lot of stress and expense. Working with a trusted advisor, like Rose Harper Law, can help you create a plan that ensures your wishes are followed—and your legacy is protected. By planning ahead, you can avoid the headaches of probate and ensure everything runs smoothly for your loved ones.

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